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Real-Life Pairings, Couple Swapping, Hypergeometric Distribution Probability

By Ion Saliu, Founder of Probability Theory of Life

Couple swapping, pairing is calculated by Probability of Hypergeometric Distribution.

I. Introduction to Wife-Husband Swapping (Couple Swapping): Serious Mathematics
II. Combinatorics of Wife Husband Swapping Problem
III. Theory of Probability Applied to Couple Swapping: Hypergeometric Distribution Formula
IV. Theory of Probability Applied to Wife-Swapping: Problem of Coincidences (Montmort)
V. Addendum to Couple Swapping, and Birthday Paradox Formula
VI. Essential Resources in Theory of Probability: Couple Swapping, Birthday Paradox

In couple swapping, what is the probability no husband will be matched with his own wife?

1. Introductory Notes to Wife-Swapping (Couple Swapping): Serious Mathematics!

  • The final version published on May 10, 2004; first capture on the WayBack Machine ( on June 6, 2004.

    This may look or sound like a frivolous subject. You should be mindful that nothing is frivolous. It's all about being true (truthfulness) or being untrue. Feelings must be discarded when dealing with the Truth. It's not important that you like or dislike a relation when evaluated to the status of Truth.

    The following is a very serious, highbrow problem of mathematics, specifically probability theory. It relates to the complex hypergeometric distribution probability formula. It isn't about bare naked sex, either.

    This number pairing problem was presented in Usenet —

    Newsgroups: alt.sci.math.probability
    Subject: Wife-swapping question
    Date: Mon, 3 May 2004 15:48:59 +0100

    "A number of married couples attend a wife-swapping party, with the pairing-off being completely random. What is the limiting probability that no man will be paired up with his wife, as the number of couples tends to infinity? Matti"

    I wrote about a similar probability matter in this article: Probability That Player Index X Draws Ticket Number X.

    Although the problem might be of more ardent interest to the anthropologists of the global village Internet, there is also profound mathematics involved. The solution necessitates combinatorics and the probability of the hypergeometric distribution.

    In wife swapping, calculate probability she will not get her own husband.

    2. The Combinatorics of the Couple Swapping Problem

    Let's start with the combinatorics. Let's start with just 3 couples—3 men and 3 women. There is a total of 6 elements. Combination of 6 taken 2 at a time is C(2x3,2) = C(6,2) = 15. The following two restrictions apply:
    1) No 2 men at a time is a valid pairing;
    2) No 2 women at a time is a valid pairing.
    Combinations of 3 men taken 2 a time is C(3,2) = 3.
    Combinations of 3 women taken 2 a time is C(3,2) = 3.
    The total number of exclusions is 2 x 3 = 6. If we deduct the exclusions from total number of combinations, the result is: 15 – 6 = 9. The result represents the square of the number of couples: 32.

    Software generates permutations, combinations, including for wife, husband, spouse swapping.

    The 3 couples consist of {Wife1+Husband1}, {Wife2+Husband2}, {Wife2+Husband2}. These are the 9 pairings:

    W1+H1, W1+H2, W1+H3
    W2+H1, W2+H2, W2+H3
    W3+H1, W3+H2, W3+H3

    There are 3 cases of equal index: W1+H1, W2+H2, W3+H3. They represent the unfavorable cases. The remaining 9 – 3 = 6 pairings represent the cases of interest: NO husband is paired with his own wife (equivalent to NO wife is paired with her own husband).

    We can generalize for a number of N couples.
    C(2N, 2) = {2xN x (2N-1)} / {1 x 2) ={N x (2xN - 1)} = 2N2 - N.

    The two exclusions can be computed as:
    2 x C(N, 2) = 2 x {N x (N-1) / (1x2)} = 2 x{(N2 – N) /2} = N2 - N.

    Finally, deduct the exclusions from total number of combinations total husbands and wives taken two at a time:
    {2N2 - N} – {N2 - N} = 2N2 - N - N2 + N = N2.

    Total possible cases (pairings) = N2.
    Total possible homogeneous pairings (husband & wife) = N.
    Total possible heterogeneous pairings = N2 — N.

    This is serious mathematics of couple swapping, wife swapping, husband swapping.

    3. Theory of Probability Applied to Couple Swapping: The Hypergeometric Distribution

    Now, let's do all those calculations for the probabilities (odds).

    There will be a random drawing of N pairings. The draw represents a hypergeometric distribution probability. You can see the formula to calculate the probability of hypergeometric distribution reading this article: Software and formulae to calculate lotto odds using the hypergeometric distribution probability. The spouse-swapping problem resembles playing lotto from a pool of numbers — The probability to get 6 of 6 in a pool of 12 from a field of 49 numbers. In the pairing case:
    N of N in {N2 — N} from a field of N2.

    I used my probability software SuperFormula.EXE, option H = Hypergeometric distribution, then 1 = Standard Lotto & Keno). I worked out a few particular cases.

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    1) N = 4; four couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 16.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 12.
    Probability of '4 of 4 in 12 from 16' = 1 in 3.677.

    2) N = 5; five couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 25.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 20.
    Probability of '5 of 5 in 20 from 25' = 1 in 3.427.

    3) N = 6; 6 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 36.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 30.
    Probability of '6 of 6 in 30 from 36' = 1 in 3.28.

    4) N = 7; 7 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 49.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 42.
    Probability of '7 of 7 in 42 from 49' = 1 in 3.18.

    5) N = 100; 100 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 10000.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 9900.
    Probability of '100 of 100 in 9900 from 10000' = 1 in 2.746.

    6) N = 200; 200 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 40000.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 39800.
    Probability of '200 of 200 in 39800 from 40000' = 1 in 2.732.

    7) N = 500; 500 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 250000.
    The pool of cases of interest (heterogeneous pairings) = N2 — N = 249500.
    Probability of '500 of 500 in 249500 from 250000' = 1 in 2.724.

    My trial for N = 1000 resulted in a probability equal to 0. That trial goes beyond the capacity of today's computers, as far as the maximum size of numbers is concerned. We can notice, however that the probability very slowly increases with the increase of N (number of couples). It appears that the limit of p when N tends to infinity is 1/e (where e = 2.71828...).

    II. We can also apply the hypergeometric distribution probability for the case of 'every man paired with his own woman/every woman paired with her own man'. The probability is much lower and decreases at a much faster pace than the increase in the preceding situation.

    1) N = 4; four couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 16.
    The pool of cases of interest (homogeneous pairings: Wn+Hn) = N = 4.
    Probability of '4 of 4 in 4 from 16' = 1 in 1820.

    2) N = 5; 5 couples.
    Total cases = N2 = 25.
    The pool of cases of interest (homogeneous pairings: Wn+Hn) = N = 5.
    Probability of '5 of 5 in 5 from 25' = 1 in 53130.

    SuperFormula.EXE can be used for many variations on this theme. For example, calculate the probability of 'exactly one man NOT to be paired with his own woman'; or, 'exactly one woman to be paired with her own man'.

    Couple swapping, swap wives or husbands in mathematical analysis.

    4. Theory of Probability Applied to Couple Swapping: The Problem of Coincidences (Montmort)

    The spouse-swapping problem resembles the Problem of Coincidences or Montmort's Problem (1708). Warren Weaver presents the Problem of Coincidences in his book Lady Luck (page 135). The formula presented in the book is:

    p = 1/2! - 1/3! + 1/4! – 1/5! + ...

    The limit of the series is 1/e, where e is the base of the natural logarithm. Warren Weaver considers that the formula “holds accurately so long as there are at least eight men at the party, and is approximately true for smaller number of guests”.

    I do believe that the hypergeometric distribution probability is a more accurate tool in this regard. We know precisely the number of all possible elements and the number of favorable elements. The hypergeometric distribution deals with four terms and we can determine them precisely. Besides, applying the above formula {(-1)N-1} / N! becomes impractical for N greater than 10. On the contrary, the hypergeometric distribution probability handles easily cases such as N = 100. I was able to work up to N = 800 (p = 1 in 2.722).

    The big problem with the hypergeometric distribution probability is REPETITION. If we generate the N2 outcomes and draw N randomly, it could happen that the same woman/man can be drawn in all N cases. For example, in the N=3 case: W3+H1, W3+H2, W3+H3. Wife #3 was drawn 3 times! The other two women could only watch the party...Or, two of the men could only watch the party...

    IV. There is another method to calculate total possible pairings. It applies also to cases of unequal groups. In the first case, we had 3 wives and 3 husbands. The total possible combinations of two elements, one from each group is 3 x 3. (W1, H1), (W1, H2), (W1, H3); (W2, H1), (W2, H2), (W2, H3); (W3, H1), (W3, H2), (W3, H3).

    If the two groups consist of N1 and N2 elements, respectively, the total number of combinations of two elements, one from each group is N1 x N2.

    I made a more detailed analysis of such situations in correlation with lotto games. Instead of playing the numbers from the entire group (N, M), it is better to play the numbers position by position (no, it's not those positions!). The median of each position represents a very relevant statistical factor. Read: • "Free Lottery Software, Excel Spreadsheets Strategies".

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    "Swapping could be bad for memory, Krushbeck. Just think how Windows behaves because of too much swapping in and out memory and onto the hard drive! BRRRRRRRRAHAHAHAHA..."

    This is probability theory applied to the problem of coincidences, hats or couple swapping.

    5.Addendum to Couple Swapping, and the Birthday Paradox Formula

    The search engines indexed this page a...couple of weeks after the publication. It shows now good ranking regarding couple-swap searching. First, I was surprised that television started couple-swapping shows! Then, I was really surprised how many searches there are on concepts such as couple swapping, wife swapping, husband swapping, etc. I mean, hundreds of searches a month — counting only those references to my Web site!

    What's going on? I know, biologically the humans are the heirs of the beasts. I define the beasts as the ferocious mammals that can only live by preying on other mammals. The lions are the best representatives. The beasts are also multi-sexual. One lion takes care of many lionesses. A lioness can go out (in the bushes) with many lions. Problem is, the lion king always kills the offsprings resulting from encounters with other lions. Good humans don't do that.

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    6. Essential Resources in Theory of Probability: Couple Swapping, and the Birthday Paradox

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